PMrR1 and PMrR2

Apparently, when it rains, it pours.  In my last entry to you 'Hope, luck and trust' I talked about a Mr.  I did not name that Mr because I thought he may actually be a potential Mr Right but I do not trust this.  Well lo and behold, I've met another Mr and he has a ton of potential for being Mr Right also!  Mr 2 and I had been talking for awhile online.  He changed his profile and I told him I liked it.  We then started talking about how come we had never met.  We didn't have an answer for that so we did meet. It was a great first meeting!  I will see Mr 2 again soon.

So there we have it.  Potential Mr Right 1 and Potential Mr Right 2.  Ladies and gentlemen, behind door number 1 we have possible Mr Right!  AND behind door number 2, we also have possible Mr Right!  Now what?  Leave it up to me to get myself in this situation!!  Some women meet a man (not a ton of them like me, no, just one) and BAM they are in a relationship.  No, not this SSW!  Let's make this a bit more complicated shall we!  Let's introduce two good possibilities for Mr Right at once!!  Well fine then, BRING IT ON!  haha!

I almost wrote, 'bring it on, because I don't trust that it will happen with neither of them....' (but I'm not that cynical so I didn't write it).  Please don't scold me...  *sigh*.

Sooooo.  Why do I think that each have the traits of Mr Right.  The attributes for each are as follows:

PMrR1                                                                      PMrR2

intelligent                                                             intelligent
well-employed                                                     well-employed
respectful                                                             respectful
cute                                                                      handsome
kind                                                                      kind and considerate
funny                                                                    makes me laugh
independent                                                         independent
fit                                                                          fit
well-rounded                                                        well-rounded
calm                                                                      high-strung

Obviously I am just starting to know these two men.  So far I've had two outing with PMrR1 and one outing with PMrR2.  I have spent less time with PMrR2 and am feeling more of a pull towards him.  I'm not sure why.

I just had a thought that it looks like I'm comparing merchandise to be bought.  Believe me it's not the case and I don't want to make it sound like that.  I'm taking this quest of mine for finding a life long partner very seriously. 

It's the first time that I 'date' two men that do not have anything that 'bugs' me about them.  No bells are ringing, no bad gut feeling, the files are quiet up there (yes there) and all seems calm.....for now....

Frankly I'm not even sure if I'll see PMrR1 again.  I haven't heard from him even though he made sure to let me know that he was interested.  Something I've learnt though with a dating site.....  It's easy to get caught up in the 'what's around the corner syndrome'.  Another entry will follow on this at a later date.  In the mean time, we both told each other that we were interested.  I made the first move for our second outing that we've already had so the ball is in his court for this one.  I strongly believe that it is important for both parties to make the effort to ask the other one out.

PMrR2 called me tonight and we talked (well he did a lot of the talking - lol) for about 30-45 minutes.  He is high strung as mentioned above but I think this may be linked to his culture.  He is very very expressive and that is also culturally related although it may just be a personality trait.  He seems to be open and honest and I find him to be very refreshing.  We made plans to meet later this week. 

So there you have it.  My dating profile is still hidden and I think I will leave it be until I can figure out what is happening with these two Misters. 

Mr Dangerous just texted me goodnight along with a xoxoxo.  Oh my!!!  No, I have not seen him nor do I intend to.  Life is complicated enough at the moment....  ;)

The next few weeks are shaping up to be promising.....

Yours in a quandary,

SSW :)